I pm'ed you , but there's no copy in my 'Sent' folder - Soooo perhaps that's another setting that needs to be fixed.
And also this dumb thing where you post and it re-directs you to the section and not the thread you were in / post you just made. That's annoying. EDIT :
Okay, both of those things seemed to be personal options that I appear to have fixed on my own now.