Since I'm not sure what the OP is stating, I can't comment specifically in terms of agreeing or disagreeing with him/her.
As a Haley fan, I did not like the Brooke/Haley friendship because Haley did 95% of the giving and Brooke 95% of the taking. There are only a handful of scene in the entire series where a scene didn't start and/or end with Brooke's issues being discussed/taking center stage. While I admire the fact that Haley's a good friend, I would have liked to see her spend more time with friends who gave as good as they took. Brooke was not one of them. I honestly don't think that any of her friendships were 50/50 balanced, but the most imbalanced, imo, was BH and the best/least imbalanced was LH. Once Lucas left, I knew "friendship" scenes for Haley were doomed and S7-S9, especially S8 (such a god-awful season), were proof of that.
But, as I've stated before in threads like this, I do understand why fans of the Brooke character liked BH. Who doesn't like scenes where their favorite receives focus?