Look, there's no right or wrong/black or white answer here...it's all about preference and personal opinion. Abortion is very controversial and no matter what, there are always going to be opposing sides.
I know, and I know we have a lot of opposing views on social issues, but it can be very difficult to bite my tongue (or typing fingers in this case?) on subjects such as these because they're so deep and I have such strong opinions about these big topics as do others. I do try my best though, but I'll try a little harder.
As for the respect thing, I guess for me, when I lose respect for someone, it makes me like them a little less, so maybe that's just not the case for you based on how you put it.
Anywaaays as usual, I will agree to disagree and move on...